Spicy food is delicious, as long as it's not stupidly hot. The spiciness should combine with the other flavours, not overpower them and cause physical distress. I made a smashing stirfry last night, and it had just the right amount of chili bite, balanced with salt, sugar, and garlic. I have some left over and am going to eat it very soon!
TNP gets strange, sudden cravings for food they don't normally eat.