As they say, you can't win if you don't play! The submission process is hard, and not fun. My writing partner refuses to submit or query. That entire responsibility is left to me--so that I shield her from the less fun rejection. It's also a huge amount of work. Getting your submission just perfect, crafting an awesome query, and researching your market can take a great deal of time and effort. It's generally not something that can be done in an hour or two. On top of that, you might not even know where to begin. If you are completely new to the process, you may be unclear of just what goes into a query, what's the proper manuscript format, the difference between a full and a partial, and just who the heck needs an agent (and why). There are also markets that you should avoid at all costs, and they often have several glaring red flags that you could miss if you aren't accustomed to them.
So with all that in mind, I thought it'd be nice to have a support thread specifically for the submission process. People can post links to interesting markets or calls for submissions, as well as provide any helpful advice or tips they have. We can also commiserate over the assholes who clearly don't understand our art. I think goals would be good, too. "I'm going to prepare one thing for submission in the month of March" or something like that.
So, I'll start! If you enjoy writing erotica, or if you think you might enjoy writing erotica, then you should check out Erotica Readers and Authors Association Call for Submissions. I've made several sales based on the information I've found there (and got a pretty sweet gig reviewing porn sites. I miss that job).