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    Default So very TMI: cramps after sex

    I have a friend. We'll call said friend "Katniss." Katniss was on the receiving end of penis-in-vagina sex, which was by all accounts highly enjoyable, but was then in a great deal of pain afterwards. During was fine, but after Katniss was doubled over in pain.

    Googling suggests STDs, cysts or pregnancy.

    Pleade tell me there are other explanations.

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    Cysts were the first thing that came to my mind. I know some women are allergic to some men's semen, but I think that manifests itself in itching or burning rather than cramping. Was this their first time together? Was there a condom involved?
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    It wasn't the first time and there was a condom. Condoms were used previously so that seems like it would rule out a latex allergy, right?

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    You would think. Is he...large? I've heard of some women cramping afterwards just because of repeated impacts to the cervical area, which they didn't notice in the heat of the moment.

    (I don't generally cause that problem in my victims, so this is just hearsay.)
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    Hitting her cervix might explain it. Hopefully that's all it is and not illness* related. Either way it was an alarming experience.

    * Pregnancy is an illness, right? Just like a virus, only instead of making an infection it grows babies.

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    Is this the same friend of the "so I have a friend" thread?
    So now they are just dirt-covered English people in fur pelts with credit cards.

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    Regardless of whether it's a friend or a friend: Sounds totally normal to me. Some women get cramps after an orgasm or vigorous sex (or both, if they're lucky!). It's not always every time, though. It might have to do with the intensity of orgasm, position, time of the month, if there was deep enough penetration to hit the cervix like OCS mentions, and other things. There's a lot of muscular contraction going on during sex and so it's usually not something to worry about.

    If the pain isn't in the area where she feels menstrual cramps or if there's bleeding, itching, signs of irritation, or it lasts longer than a few minutes it might be something to check out. But a transient cramp isn't too worrying all on its own.
    So now they are just dirt-covered English people in fur pelts with credit cards.

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    Quote Originally posted by Zuul View post
    Is this the same friend of the "so I have a friend" thread?


    Thank you for the answers. It only lasted a little while.

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    Quote Originally posted by Peeta Mellark View post
    Quote Originally posted by Zuul View post
    Is this the same friend of the "so I have a friend" thread?


    Thank you for the answers. It only lasted a little while.
    Sorry for your bits. However bad the pain, it's better than the dull ache of not getting any at all.
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    Oh, my bits are fine. I'm a Penile-American.

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    Ah, gotcha.
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