Having now found myself bored enough to finally research the question of what an unshaved pudenda looks like,* I've decided to proceed on with my other low-priority sex-ed question.**
Male -> Female, vaginal penetration:
1) Penatratee on knees, reach around from Penetrator.
Pros:
- Everyone is getting some action
Cons:
- Cold belly for lower person (?)
- Awkward positioning for upper person to hold (?)
2) Penetratee lies on belly, Penetrator lies on her.
Pros:
- No cold belly
- Comfortable position
Cons:
- Penetratee isn't getting it as good
3) Penatratee lies on back, Penetrator kneels over using hands to masturbate Penetratee
Pros:
- Everyone is getting some action
- More comfortable position for Penetrator than #1
Cons:
- One cold belly, one cold torso
4) ???
Of course cold belly syndrome can be solved through the thermostat and simple "not really an issue when going at it." So what is the default position?
And of course, according to the excerpt from the recent William Shatner interview, he was saying that vaginal sex was "something young people do." So, I'm having to guess that a sizeable percentage of male -> female sex is mutual masturbation (?) But then what, sitting side by side or facing each other seems a bit distant.
And of course, if engaging in regular vaginal sex; regular douches? Or is it more of a "do now, take a shower immediately after" type thing?
Essentially the bit that keeps me wondering isn't "how" people please each other sexually (not hard to figure out), just more of a, day-to-day, what default position/technique is the most practical in terms of comfort level for both parties without getting into yoga-esque shapes while still providing mutual gratification. Meat and peas, tried and proven. Of course, that is assuming a norm of "mutual gratification" which may or may not be accurate.
* If you pretend that the hair on the head had somehow traveled downstairs and then become curly, this is what was removed.
** Inspired by the curiosity of straight people. ***
*** Which, bizarrely, showed up here.