Myrnalene, I would like to apologize to you. I still don't really agree with you as I don't believe this board has any real problem with these terms being tossed around lightly, but I get your point that they are only used against women and there are no male equivalents and that does suck. More importantly I apologize for my over-the-top anger. Comparing you to Zotti and thought-police was silly and stupid and I am sorry.
I would have apologized sooner, but honestly I was pissed at you calling me an asshole for disagreeing with you.
Jim